As if her 30th birthday this past weekend wasn’t a big enough milestone (attended by the likes of Taylor Swift, Pharrell Williams, and Kate Hudson), Lady Gaga and Taylor Kinney may have succeeded where few celebrity couples can.

Could they be navigating the general chaos of a wedding on their own terms and in secret? Dressed in a gold Saint Laurent mini-dress and black suit, Gaga and Kinney were both spotted after her birthday soirée Saturday night wearing gold bands on their left ring fingers.

The couple got engaged on Valentine’s Day 2015 with Kinney giving Gaga a 6-carat heart-shaped diamond ring worth a reputed $400,000 or higher, making the simple gold band on her left hand even more captivating. Brides Magazine’s online site posted several photos of the couple (via Shady Music Facts) both sporting the bands.

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After meeting on the set of her music video “You and I” in the summer of 2011, Gaga and Kinney were spotted together around New York by that fall. Since then, their public appearances are slowly becoming more frequent although they remain steadfastly private about details of their relationship. She has said that her wedding will be an intimate affair honoring family, so it wouldn’t be surprising to leave the press and fans and celebrity friends out of it.

Could the singer, who carefully crafts and protects her image, and her Chicago Fire fiancé have kept their nuptials under wraps after all? Until an official statement is released, her poker face remains happily blank.